Finding Emo

I walked into Barnes and Noble dumfounded by a new section in the bookstore, Teen Paranormal Fiction.  The popularity of vampire love has skyrocketed in the last few years.  I'm having trouble grasping the appeal.  I know a little about Twilight and sparkly vampires.  Vladamir Tod seems to be the teen vamp heartthrob.  The kids I see liking this stuff are already having some issues.  They tend to be the kids on the fringe of the social hierarchy.  I'm just not convinced that reading about fantasy characters falling in love is very helpful if this is the only thing you are reading.  It seems to cause an unhealthy fascination with being very different.

I'm all for individuality but sometimes it is taken too far with all black clothes, excessive makeup, hair dye, piercings, tattoos.  And scariest of all, these seem to be the kids most likely to cut themselves.  It gets me wondering if all the blood and gore in these paranormal books and shows is doing some type of desensitizing to self-inflicted violence.  Does it encourage strangeness by supporting the idea that even the evil have some redeeming qualities?

Teaching kids to conform a little can really help them fit in.  I think individuality is a bit overrated.  In the end, your kid needs to finish as much school as possible and eventually get a job.  Don't tie one hand behind their back allowing them to be ostracized for the sake of self-expression.  Don't allow permanent changes to hair, skin, and earlobes.  While they're under your roof, require a little conformity, monitor who they are hanging with, and by all means monitor the media and books that they are downloading into their developing little hard drives.  I believe you are what you eat, and to some extent, you fantasize about what you watch, read and hear.  Keep your appetite healthy and varied.